Episodes

Tuesday Dec 01, 2020
Ep 43: Deck the Halls Covid Style! Tips on Decorating for the Holidays
Tuesday Dec 01, 2020
Tuesday Dec 01, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa talk about decorating for the holidays. What will that look like for your family? Are you going to pare down or go all out? Are you grappling with how to balance caregiving, decorating, and Covid stress? This year looks different for everyone, but caregivers have an added layer of preparing for the holidays and keeping the safety of their fragile loved-one in mind. Safety with from both Covid and decorating hazards. Join Robyn and Melissa as they provide tips and ideas on how to make this season festive and safe for everyone.
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Tuesday Nov 24, 2020
Ep 42: BIG NEWS!! & Some Holiday Cheer
Tuesday Nov 24, 2020
Tuesday Nov 24, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa have some very exciting news and a special gift to share with you. In addition to this big surprise, they want to spread some holiday cheer with fond memories and funny stories from seasons past. This is a weird and difficult time for all of us in 2020, and for caregivers, it is doubly hard. So, let's take a moment to think about the joy of the past and create hope for the future.
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Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Ep 41 - Thanksgiving 2020 - What in the World Will it Be Like?
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
Tuesday Nov 17, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa tackle the complicated discussion around Thanksgiving and coronavirus. Caregiving is hard enough and when you add the virus to the mix, who knows what to expect! We are all dealing with the uncertainty of the season and longing for family connection, but it looks like surging virus numbers and tightening restrictions could jeopardize Thanksgiving Day plans. Join Robyn and Melissa as they talk about how to deal with the pain and uncertainty of this confusing holiday season.

Tuesday Nov 10, 2020
Tuesday Nov 10, 2020
In today's episode, Robyn and Melissa tackle an often overlooked aspect of relationship building - our own trustworthiness. Sometimes we can get singularly focused on an objective or opinion and forget that we are dealing with humans who have feelings and their own perspectives. It is crucial to remember that as we build the best care team for our loved-ones, relationships matter. Join Melissa and Robyn as they navigate what trust-building looks like from the other side.

Tuesday Nov 03, 2020
Tuesday Nov 03, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa talk about how caregivers often are their own biggest stressor. It's an uncomfortable truth, but necessary to face. We often get in our way when we lose focus on our caregiving goals. But don't worry, if you are the problem you are also the solution. Join Robyn and Melissa as they share their own experiences and tips on how to get out of your own way and become an empowered caregiver.

Tuesday Oct 27, 2020
Tuesday Oct 27, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa discuss insider tips on how to pick the best facility for your loved one. Hear Melissa's Fish Tank Rule and other tips the gals have learned from decades of working in and around facilities. Have you ever wanted to know how industry professionals evaluate facilities? Well now is your chance. Learn how to see beyond the enticing sales brochure and pick the best fit for your loved one!

Tuesday Oct 20, 2020
Ep 37: Tough Conversation Around the Sticker Shock of Growing Old
Tuesday Oct 20, 2020
Tuesday Oct 20, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa talk about the sticker shock of aging. If you haven't taken the opportunity ahead of time to prepare for the cost of senior care the cost can feel like a slap in the face. It is not cheap, this much is true. BUT, the good news is it can be manageable. Melissa and Robyn will break down the different costs involved and give you tips on how to be strategic in getting the biggest bang for your buck.

Tuesday Oct 13, 2020
Tuesday Oct 13, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa update you on the regulation and mandate changes related to COVID 19 and senior living communities. It has been a very long and difficult 6 months for our older, vulnerable population. In an abundance of caution, senior living communities have placed strict limitations on visitors and outings. This has taken a severe toll on our seniors and their families. In some cases, the precautions have proven more devastating than the virus. Finally, with policy leaders listening and improvements on the virus front, restrictions are beginning to ease. Visitation in these communities is opening up. Robyn and Melissa will walk you through these changes in Tennessee and give you tips on how to make sure you and your loved ones are benefiting from these changes.

Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Ep 35 - Managing Emotions - The Difference Between Venting and Complaining
Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa talk about the difference between venting and complaining. We have all been stressed out, overwhelmed, and even downright over it when it comes to caregiving. In those tough times, it helps to reach out to a supportive ear, whether that is family or friends. However, those sessions of healthy venting can sometimes turn toxic and become unproductive complaining. So, how do you know the difference and stay focused on the healthier track? Find out as Melissa and Robyn dive deep on how to navigate these emotional land mines.

Friday Oct 02, 2020
Ep 34: Is Mom Having Sex? How to Handle Intimacy Issues with Your Loved One
Friday Oct 02, 2020
Friday Oct 02, 2020
In this week's episode, Robyn and Melissa talk about the taboo topic of sex and the elderly. No use is avoiding these issues, because our loved ones want and still need intimacy in their lives as they age. How can we as caregivers be prepared to handle the issues around intimacy? Robyn and Melissa explore how you can lovingly protect your loved ones from harm and preserve their right and need for intimate connection at the same time. Yes, this can get awkward and a little embarrassing, but being prepared to deal with it is a necessary responsibility of a caregiver. So, let's tackle this issue together...